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I often end up ghosting people after exchanging a handful of messages. We all know a bad workman blames his tools, so I decide to speak to my friends about my dating patterns. Never ones to hold back, they tell me that I am too judgmental, writing off good men for all the wrong reasons.

Persia Lawsondating coach and author of The Inner Fix, says that if you are repeatedly drawn to emotionally unavailable people, it is probably a defence mechanism.

As a dreamy flibbertigibbet who grew up with Disney movies as her primary source of spiritual guidance, it is tempting to wait for a prince to climb my hair and carry me off to an all-you-can-eat cheese restaurant.

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Her advice makes perfect sense. Some of the best and most solid relationships develop over time, without instant infatuation to cloud your judgment. But when you have spent 15 years chasing players who have the emotional intelligence of a toothbrush, how do you change your ways and start choosing better men? Lawson says that rather than looking for the person I fancy the most, I should focus on shared values.

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You can have preferences, but focusing on them too much is part of love avoidance and you keep people out by having strict specifications. The only thing you need to ask is how your date makes you feel about yourself as Goo. Do you feel comfortable? Do you share the same values?

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Do you want the same things? After exchanging messages with a web developer called James, we agree to meet after work at a local pub. There will be booze involved, but I have set myself a deadline to come home at 9pm and finish inyo work.

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This also doubles as the perfect escape plan in case he turns out to be a homicidal maniac who collects human hair in jam jars. Although I have zero expectations, the date is a success and it is the most comfortable I have felt with a man in months.

Following a difficult divorce or break up, many people can be left feeling insecure. Often individuals lose their confidence and self-worth during this period which makes it difficult to move forward.

If this sounds familiar, Salama suggests speaking to your friends.

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Ask them simple questions like why they are friends with you and why they enjoy spending time with you. This is where online dating can help many singletons. Salama reminds new singles that not everyone you meet will be on the same dating page as lookinh. While you might meet someone you like and your feelings are reciprocated, their relationship expectations could differ vastly from your own.

That way neither of you are wasting your time.

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Salama labors the importance of looking forwards. Focusing on your ex will do you no good. A lot of people make the error of talking about their ex with a new person, both online and offline.

The same applies for online dating profiles. Be sure to focus on the future, not on the past.

No-one wants to hear about the ex. But this can be worked on and slowly individuals are ready to move forward into a new relationship.

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If your new relationship is worth it, the person you met will be liffe to see your vulnerable side. This is a good way of establishing what you want too.

Salama tells all new singletons to remember this one thing: If you get the feeling that the person you just met is somehow emotionally unavailable, move on. It really is that simple.

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Because everyone deserves someone great who is ready to commit to them in a relationship. Charlotte Bridge is an editor for EliteSingles.

See more articles written by Charlotte Bridge. After years or decades! Particularly as the art of seduction has changed somewhat. So how do new singletons go about dating after a long break?

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