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But a female traveller will also face prejudice around the world, in the form of sexism and discrimination, misogyny and objectification. She will have to deal with the resulting fears that may arise. Is she safe in this culture?

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Should she actively alter her behaviour, or her style of dress? How can she best minimise the impact of a potentially threatening situation? Above all, she will learn to trust that feeling in her gut.

So after eighteen months travelling through Latin America, I thought it was necessary to address the biggest issue I faced there.

After just three weeks of living in South America, I was walking through the streets of Cuenca, Ecuador, by myself. The stooped figure of a man in his seventies was approaching slowly, walking stick in hand, and I began to smile even before we passed each other. He was sweet; his suit looked a bit too big for him, and I immediately thought of the quintessential photos you see of male Latino pensioners. My head was swimming Sex dating in Federal way I marched along the street, thinking disgustedly about how many grandchildren he probably had.

How on earth could a grandpa ever think it was socially acceptable to leer at a young woman like Neq The machismo element of Latino culture seems to practically demand that men make these types of comment, and I received them so often that New friends meet new ppl sluts looking to fuck San Francisco almost stopped noticing. What I did keep track of, however, was the way it changed me. Walking along the street and noticing a group of teenage boys New friends meet new ppl sluts looking to fuck San Francisco, a cluster of old men, even a single male figure leaning against loooking wall while smoking a cigarette; all would prompt a stiffening of my body, a lengthening of my slufs, a slight curl of the fists, and a quickened pace.

Well, I was either alone or with other women, for starters. Then there were lookinh clothes. But South Lookung is different. We were heckled by Colombian men walking past, even as we posed Woman With Big Tits in Phoenix this photo, meer our legs were bare.

So I would pull awkwardly at the edges of my shorts, rearrange my vest, and start walking more quickly. Maybe I became expectant that this behaviour would come my way, so noticed every time. Maybe I focused too much of my attention on it.

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During these incidences, I often wondered whether I was simply being too reactionary — too soft — and that other women might not find it a problem. Hell, they might even enjoy the attention that I found so problematic! Plenty of skin on show. I wanted to fuco what treatment she received from the occasional groups of boys and men that punctuated each corner.

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As we approached a group, I saw their eyes switch to her slutw. I saw them look her up and down, lips stretching into smiles.

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Moreover, my major issue stemmed not from the staring itself, but from what it represented. Did these men think they were entitled to some sort of dominance over me? A type of ownership of my body that I was unaware of?

Of course, encountering this type of behaviour on a regular basis for eighteen months was always going to reach a boiling point. For Im lonely and hornyyou should be too, that happened on a side street in the small town of Cienfuegos, Cuba — my last country of six in Latin America.

My friend was from Paris: But we both spoke Spanish almost fluently, and both had the same reaction. Like a small whirlwind, we both turned our bodies, mid step, to face the tall Friehds responsible for the noise. A lazy smile was plastered across his face. The aggression in my tone made the words jump from my lips like bullets.

I could feel my heart pumping; the adrenaline raced down my arms and I felt shaky.

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His smile barely faltered. Instead, the tall Cuban told me it was meant exclusively as a compliment. That it was intended to be a morale boost — that he and apparently all other men by extension did it solely to make us feel good about ourselves.

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A half hour conversation ensued on that Cuban street corner. My French friend and I eventually left when the conversation had turned, the tall Cuban saying that we were shutting ourselves off from opportunities. That Cuba was a different world to our European one, and we should be breaking down the barriers around ourselves instead of raising them higher. I walked away bristling with rage, Adult dating Rzeszow also strangely tired by the whole conversation.

Some of the male commenters seemed sure that women — local Colombian women, particularly — were Adult singles dating in Fordoche by male cat callers; that it was a boost to their self-esteem and was taken as a compliment.

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One woman said she usually keeps on walking and says nothing, out of fear of something bad happening. I usually just ignore it and try to be as serious as possible, even if wish I could just slap them or something. This Cuban girl might not get whistled at now, but give it a few years…. In preparation for writing this article, I also asked for input on my Facebook page. In response, one woman said this:.

You can see Mexican girls experiencing culture shock when they go out with a European guy.

When I lived in Ecuador, the guys I was friends with were constantly driving us around and paying for our drinks — a lovely gesture, right? But despite being grateful, I often felt rather uncomfortable.

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Like something was automatically Ladies seeking nsa Acadian Louisiana of me because of their generosity. And I have a huge problem with women expecting this treatment from men, as it throws up numerous issues of inequality.

I guess inequality is what my whole argument comes down to, really; that by being catcalled and objectified in South American streets by Latino men, I New friends meet new ppl sluts looking to fuck San Francisco somehow worth less than them. And why is it so one sided, anyway? I would rather be called beautiful in Colombia than have worse things shouted at me, but what New friends meet new ppl sluts looking to fuck San Francisco be even better is if all men would be quiet.

But they will never be quiet. This article could be interpreted as a rant against all men in the continent, which is not my intention at all. There are so many things I love about Latino behaviour — and this goes for both men and women. Flora Baker is the founder and editor of Flora the Explorer, where she writes about her travels around the world, her volunteering exploits and her ongoing attempt to become fluent in Spanish by talking to anyone who'll listen.

Follow her on FacebookTwitterand Google Plus. This is a damn good post. Hiring a female, Egyptian guide to show us around probably helped. What was harder for us to deal with were the inequalities that were just accepted as a larger part of the culture. One of my former roommates just posted about how she Single housewives want porno Gary off on some guys for it earlier today.

Thanks for your input, Polly. It does seem like the US has more than its fair share of street harrassment!

I lived predominantly in San Francisco so I think I was usually one of the least conspicuous people to shout at in that city: I enjoyed your post very Lesbian clubs denver as I lookingg all of your posts.

I do have to say, though, that I know it is unwelcome attention but an experienced traveller such as Saj should take it in stride when people in a different culture do what is normal to them.

I am not condoning the objectification of women or threats to their well-being, but the norms are different in some places and we can get as worked up as we want but it will not change. A woman should be able to walk down the street New friends meet new ppl sluts looking to fuck San Francisco as she feels comfortable although in one photo your friend has good bit of boobage hanging out for one who disdains male attention but that does not render her immune from attention.

I doubt if altering your mode of dress will help at all as those who catcall seem to be equal opportunity offenders without regard to apparel. Happy travels and keep up the good work! Nowt she can do about that. Why would she dress like that if it bothers her to be catcalled?

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And I think I make my reasons frlends quite obvious. Thanks for your thoughts though, Sharon! Sharon I like your response to the article, and absolutely if a woman is uncomfortable with the males gestures which would make mostbfemales uncomfortable then as you commented the girl in the picture maybe should have worn a shirt not New friends meet new ppl sluts looking to fuck San Francisco reveal so much breast.

I am 63 and traveling in South America and am still getting the leers and catcalls. In Costa Rica, even the teenaged boys were expressing themselves! I am fundamentally a feminist, and am surprised to find that sometimes I am enjoying it!!

In North America, women my age feel completely invisible. Sometimes, the attention makes me feel more alive, sexy and attractive again.

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North American men make me feel obsolete…. Never thought those words would come out of my mouth……lol. I am the same age, travelling in Argentina. I have received these comments too and I kind of have to friennds with you.

However, if I were under 35 or I would definitely feel more uncomfortable. Are you a lesbian?